Anal sex can be very special, but only with a woman who really enjoys it. If she is lying there not responding (a total turnoff), then she is tolerating it, meaning she is either not being stimulated or is in pain and not telling you. Anal sex can be the primary form of sexual activity or it can accompany other types of stimulation. For instance, couples sometimes include manual stimulation of the anus (either lightly rubbing the rim or inserting a finger into the anus) during vaginal intercourse. Women who want to surprise their partner with anal sex can prepare their body beforehand. If a woman feels comfortable stimulating her anus when alone, she is likely to feel more comfortable when her partner does.

And anal sex can be painful without enough lube for the person on the receiving end! Never in any sex act is more consideration required for your partner than in anal sex. In men, anal sex can produce a pleasurable sensation due to the stimulation that the partner's erect penis causes when rubbing or massaging the prostate (see below). Penetration can be painful for some men depending on their rectal anatomy or on the amount of lubrication used during penetration. Receptive anal sex can be very enjoyable. The key is to start slow and use plenty of lubrication.

Anal sex can be enjoyed in various forms by both men and women of all sexual orientations. If you're afraid to broach the subject with your partner, you're not alone: many people don't find the courage to experiment with anal play until well into their sexual lives. Thus, even with a condom, anal sex can be risky. A person should use generous amounts of water-based lubricant in addition to the condom to reduce the chances of the condom breaking. Anal sex can be a perfectly safe activity as long as you take the necessary precautions. You should remember that your anus and rectum do not have their own natural lubrication nor the kind of elasticity the mouth and vagina enjoy.

Watch Marco work Naomi's ass overtime in this high-def anal sex video. In this video I take my time stripping out of my hot little outfit. I had just gotten home from the mall and hubby greeted me with the camera and was ready to go. With the promise of putting her in a music video, she reluctantly came back to our studio. But the only video we planned on shooting was of her playing our skin flutes and us drummin' dat fresh lil' ass.